ingeniousnonsense asked: I just wanted to say that the person who was sending you disgusting asks really upsets me. I hope they don't upset you, but as a man, they really make me feel very let down. I hope they know that their behavior is absolutely unacceptable and it is not ok for them to speak to you or anyone that way.
Getting this message was shocking and upsetting. First off, everyone should know that Alex didn’t mean to message me off-anon. He made a mistake and didn’t hit anon. I confirmed this with him via text.
So let’s break down how fucked up this is:
1. This means you could have been / probably have been sending me anon messages for awhile now. Aside from creeping me out to the max, this is just another way in which you are continuing to manipulate me from behind a curtain. You think you’re doing something nice - sending me “support”, but really you’re sitting at your computer getting off on me publicly posting something you sent me anonymously. Watching me appreciate your words because I didn’t know they were from you, even though you KNOW I don’t want to hear from you and KNOW I would feel differently if I knew you’d written them.
2. Let’s look at this actual message. You feel, um, “let down” by someone sexually harassing me on Tumblr? Sorry if I don’t take that very kindly considering you sexually assaulted me. Don’t say hypocritical shit like that when you really let yourself down. And lots of other people in your life. I hope you know that your behavior is/was absolutely unacceptable.
3. It’s really unacceptable for you to be reaching out to me, even in anon form.
4. The last person I need “support” from is you.